The Wedding ofງານແຕ່ງດອງ

Matthew&Julie

SaturdayMarch 27 · 2027Fresno, California
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A glimpse of us.

Julie resting her head on Matthew's arm on the beach, waves behind them
Matthew and Julie's hands linked by the pinky, her engagement ring catching the sun
Matthew and Julie kissing on a clifftop trail above the ocean
Matthew kissing a laughing Julie on the bluffs, the coastline stretching behind them
Matthew and Julie holding hands on a clifftop path above the ocean
Chapter IThe Celebration

One day,
two traditions,
one thread.

A traditional Lao Baci ceremony in the afternoon, followed by an evening reception filled with traditional Lao dancing and food.

Baci Ceremony

Sou Khuan · ສູ່ຂວັນ
When
4:30 pm
Attire
Relaxed cocktail casual

The heart of the day. We gather around the pha khuan — a marigold pyramid of folded banana leaves — symbolizing the joining of two families.

Reception

Dinner & Traditional Lao Dance
When
To follow
Attire
Relaxed cocktail casual

A family-style feast of traditional Lao and Asian dishes, followed by Lao music and traditional Lao dance. Comfortable shoes, please.

Chapter IIThe Day

Unhurried,
and exact.

Saturday
27 March 2027
Fresno, California
  1. 4:00 pm
    The celebration begins

    Guest Arrival

    Please arrive by 4:00 pm so you don’t miss the parade.

  2. 4:15 pm
    The parade

    Groom’s Procession

    A ceremonial arrival: the groom, followed by his family and friends, comes to ask for and join the bride. It marks his formal arrival to the bride’s family to begin the marriage ceremonies, showing respect and intention.

  3. 4:30 pm
    Sou Khuan · ສູ່ຂວັນ

    Baci Ceremony

    The couple is blessed and spiritually prepared for their new life together. Family and guests are welcome to tie white strings around the couple’s wrists, offering personal wishes for happiness, health, prosperity, protection, long life, harmony, and a strong marriage.

  4. To follow
    Family-style

    Dinner, Drinks & Dancing

    A family-style feast of traditional Lao and Asian dishes and a toast of goodwill shared with every guest, then music and traditional Lao dance. The first circle forms, and from here on, the night belongs to the dance floor.

Chapter IIIFrequently Asked

Things you might be
wondering.

No question is too small — and if it isn't here, write us.

Relaxed cocktail casual for the whole day — think sundresses, skirts, slacks, and a nice shirt; no tie required. We kindly ask that you refrain from wearing red or white.

Yes — you are welcome to bring one guest. Just choose “Plus one” on the RSVP form and add their name.

Your presence is the greatest gift. If you would like to give something, a small cash envelope is a traditional Lao custom, and contributions to our honeymoon fund are warmly appreciated.

Chapter IVRSVP

Will you join us?

Kindly respond by February 1, 2027. One form per party, please.

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